subject line: abandoned. May 22, 2018 by Hannah Brencher Virginia My husband left for rehab this morning. He’s barely spoken to me since Friday night and then all hell broke loose. I didn’t send him, his parents did. When does the feeling of abandonment go away? He just got an all expenses paid trip to the beach for 30 days and I’m left to pick up the pieces and live real life. When does the resentment go away? Is it even normal to feel this way?