subject line: can we get drinks again? April 23, 2016 by Hannah Brencher usa I got drinks with this amazing man last week and it was more than what I had hoped for. But it was not a date...no matter how many times people ask or how much I wish it was...it was not. I wish I could ask him to go out with me again...but I’m the girl. I just want to know what he’s thinking. I want to know if my hope is pointless or not. I want to know so badly.