subject line: I didn't believe. September 06, 2015 by Hannah Brencher wichita, kansas. I didn’t believe in soul mates until I met you. One look and I thought, “oh no,” because you’re not supposed to meet your soul mate when he’s your new boss and you’re both married. And 8 months later, you’re not supposed to be madly in love. The kind of love that is devastating, all-encompassing, and life-changing. I’m terrified you’re not the end of my story and how will I ever be ok without you.