subject line: why am I still waiting for you? June 07, 2015 by Hannah Brencher los angeles, california I told him to leave me alone. I don’t reply to his text messages. He hurt me. He hurt me really good. He would win the prize for biggest jerk in Los Angeles, and there’s a ton of guys competing for that trophy. I am so much better off without him. So then why? Why the hell am I waiting for him to like my Facebook post?Maybe the heart really does want what it wants.