subject line: Marriage or divorce. May 30, 2015 by Hannah Brencher columbus, ohio Marriage, 2 people who work hard every day to make the other happy. So that’s what we are told.My Marriage, 2 people who work hard every day to avoid each other, sleep next to each other but completely apart. Say I love you but only out of habit not love. Live completely separate lives. But why? What’s the point? Is this what I’m teaching my children? That life only gets worse?