Subject line: new goals. May 03, 2015 by Hannah Brencher cincinnatti, ohio. Everyone around me is so caught up in wanting to know how everything is going to end up: how quickly they’ll get promoted, who they’re going to spend the rest of their life with and which friendships will stand the test of time. There is no clear end goal in sight. There is no graduation anymore. We are unsure what we’re after.