subject line: I'm f**king beautiful. April 13, 2015 by Hannah Brencher nashville, tennessee It took some serious work to discover self-love. And then I started loving myself, because I realized I’m a marvel — “a wonderful or astonishing person or thing”. It is astonishing that I have two strong legs. It is astonishing that my goofy laugh is contagious. It is astonishing that the lightness of my eyes shows kindness when I can’t. It is astonishing that my big thighs make me more relatable to women. I am captivatingly marvelous. And then it was appalling that he couldn’t see that after all this time. It took me loving myself to see what neither of us could before. And he still can’t see it. So I have to say goodbye.