subject line: the unanswered question. October 28, 2015 by Hannah Brencher a small town in ohio I always knew I wasn’t going to be the ‘settle down with your high school sweet-heart’ type. I never wanted to be. But now I am watching my friends, one by one, meet the guy of their dreams and I can’t help but wonder...am I not a ‘settle down’ person at all? I thought lack of commitment was a phase that I would eventually grow out of. I am worried that I might have to mindset of a frat boy forever.